Have you ever said something to someone then you regretted later?

After a long writing break, i just feel inspirational and i would like to offer a word or two to my loyal(s) reader out there,,,

I was in a matatu talking to myself as usual (i like consulting my inner self in various instances so that i can evaluate how i am handling my life). As my medulla reflected on a number of wishes that i would like to accomplish very soon, i remembered something that i said to someone over the weekend that i really consider stupid. I call it stupid because every time i recall i find it was not the most suitable statement i made. It keeps ringing on my mind and i just wish i could see the person and say it was a joke.
Consider the following situations:
1. A man shouts at a person in the lavatories, "Hey, those are ladies washrooms!". The purported victim turns and the man notices that she is a lady, he will definitely feel embarrassed.
2. Sending your classmate, who is a staunch christian, a text message that was intended to be for your intimate girlfriend accidentally.

There are several examples we can give on situations that has lead as into a gaffe. One thing that is very significant, we opt to shy away to people we said stupid things to; hence, our rapport is portrayed in shackles. We feel shy facing them especially when we realize that they are superior to us and we made silly and timid jokes to them.

Hey, people that should not worry you a lot, our relationship should continue and the feeling of guilt must be gushed away to allow us to be more comfy with each other.

Shame and embarrassment are among the hardest emotions that human beings would wish to be bombarded with. They take extra caution to avoid shame; however, when it is already done, there is no a reversal.
This is what you should do in such a situation....

1. Laugh at yourself for being such a jack***
2. understand that it was not prudent to do so and promise yourself to be more cautious in your conversations.
3. Do something you love to relinquish the guilty feeling from your skull...may be compose a song about it, write a nice poem addressing the issue, or for you the emotional brats, update your watsapp status,,,,#feelingguiltyforalashingtounge or something else that will make you break free.
4. Do not avoid the people you offended, get more close for them to understand that it was either a slip of your tongue or your nature.

Be blessed